... i can't figure them out. i haven't made databases since FM6 and i can see there's been some changes. anyway, i can't connect a "client" file with a "job ticket" or "invoice" files - the "table" graphic is mind-numbing, not really sure who's bright idea that was (hope not yours.) anyway, i know i'm just missing a step or 2 - any help out there?

Your question is very general so I am going to refer you to a general resource. Take a look at the Professional Foundation book and CD ROM for $99.00 at the filemaker.com web site.

BTW, once you get used to the relationship graph, I'm sure you'll find is far more flexible than relationship dialog in previous versions.